Tuesday, October 6, 2009

Love promotes intimacy (Day 17)

He who covers over an offense promotes love, but whoever reports the matter separates close friends. Proverbs 17:9

Today's Dare:

Determine to guard your mate's secretes ( unless they are dangerous to them or to you) and pray for them. Talk with your spouse, and resolve to demonstrate love in spite of these issues. Really listen to them when they share personal thoughts and struggles with you. Make them feel safe.

_______ Check here when you've completed today's dare.

To me - this one is a little off - I don't think a spouse should keep secretes from one another. I can see if a person 'struggles' or worries....something to that factor - and maybe share that....but I don't consider those secrets do you?


Lindsey said...

I def agree with you! No secrets is def a rule in our house!

McKT said...

i love you mommy